Masculinity Debate: Are Dating Apps Creating Incels?! Lonely Men Are More Dangerous Than Ever! (Video)
In this 31 March 2025 video, host Steven Bartlett talks about the emergency currently happening with the dating landscape. Are we raising a lost generation of men? Is society failing young boys? Steven sits down with expert guests to explore the recently published ‘Lost Boys Report’.
The Diary Of A CEO’s masculinity discussion is joined by Scott Galloway and Logan Ury. Scott Galloway is a member of the advisory council for the American Institute for Boys and Men and Professor of Marketing at the New York Stern School of Business. Logan Ury is a behavioural scientist turned dating coach and Director of Relationship Science at Hinge.
https://youtu.be/li70iz1NaDY
00:00 Intro
02:03 The Lost Boys Report
06:02 How Did This Happen?
10:27 Fatherless Homes
14:29 Are Boys Mentally Weaker?
16:41 Is the Education System the Problem?
22:39 Where Are Male Role Models?
29:58 What the Stats Say About Dating
34:32 Dating Standards
44:13 Do Women Really Want Emotionally Attuned Men?
46:06 If They’re Okay, Always Go on a Second Date
47:56 Men’s Groups: Should We Have Them and What Are the Benefits?
54:46 Ads
55:40 Steve’s Supportive Group of Friends
01:02:32 The Dangers of Porn for Young Boys
01:07:51 How Scott Helps Men With Porn Addiction
01:13:01 Men Approaching Women in a Post-MeToo Era
01:15:17 Teens Don’t Know How to Ask Girls Out in Person
01:25:11 Do Successful Women Struggle to Find a Partner?
01:28:00 Ads
01:30:13 The Rise of Feminism
01:31:53 Money Equals Identity for Men
01:37:08 Does Money Give Self-Worth to Women?
01:39:41 The Human Dating Boot Camp
01:48:32 How Is the Left Going to Get Men Back?
01:53:15 Advice for Parents of Young Boys
01:56:11 What Scott and Steve Had to Unlearn About Being a Man
02:11:01 Closing Message for the Lost Boys